How to meet people? Have you ever had this when you saw a cool company and you wanted to meet her. But didn’t know how? Or have you ever been interested in a person with whom you would like to start a conversation. But could not? Or did you just have a situation where you were left alone with a stranger and was silent, like a fish, because you did not know where to start the conversation?
Recognized yourself? Then you will be interested in this post.
And how to meet people?
First decide if it’s worth it? Because sometimes communication with “unnecessary” people is only a burden. Many, on the contrary, “clean” their environment, remain with those people whose communication is only a joy.
Well, if you were straightforward and decided that this acquaintance will bring something new to your life, then let’s go!
How to start a conversation.
Take the first step, more often it is the most difficult. After all, it seems to you that a person does not start a conversation, because you are not interested in him. In turn, the same person of the same opinion about you. The result is a vicious circle. That is, you yourself, without knowing it, limit yourself in communication.
Do not live by the principle of “What if …”.
“What if he doesn’t want to communicate with me …”; «If I’m not interested in him …»; “What if he thinks I’m kind of weird …” and so on. this list goes on and on! For all this, you can only say, “And so what ????”
-Firstly, never limit yourself in action! No one is forbidden to try something in this world. If you offer communication, but they refuse, it does not matter! So this is not your man. Life does not end there. The main thing is that you tried.
-Secondly, if you are considered strange, then you do not need to communicate with such a person. Any decent person should adequately respond to the proposal in communication, in extreme cases, he should politely refuse. Do not strive for those people who are not worth it.
Acquaintance in social networks.
Also, do not forget that now is the age of nanotechnology. Many teens get acquainted on the Internet) This has its pros and cons.
Dating from anywhere in the world. Communication with people from other countries. Broadening the horizons.
-When you are in a country unfamiliar to you, you may need the help of a local resident. It is in this situation that online dating plays a big role.
-If you are learning a language, on the network you can meet a native speaker of this language and practice) Combine business with pleasure!
-Many in the network are becoming more liberated. Some people find it much easier to communicate on the Internet.
There is no live communication, visual contact.
People are increasingly getting into phones and are not enjoying real life. It is not known what to expect from a person on the other side of the screen. You need to be vigilant, do not forget about caution. As they say, when you look at a person, eyes can tell you the truth. In other languages, with live communication, you can make up a subjective opinion about a person. Which you will not do with virtual communication.
Probably the best option is to combine online communication and live communication. After meeting on the Internet, why not meet a person with such an opportunity) Thus, one type of communication smoothly flows into another.
In the end, I want to say that communication with people plays a big role in our lives. Meet new people as a result of the desire to communicate. Communication will enrich you with new information, joyful emotions. Meeting strangers will bring something new to your life. Because the personality is largely dependent on the environment. And if you want to look at yourself from a new perspective, start meeting people! MEET — COMMUNICATE — LIVE! Also, you can read this post in Russian language.