How often do you say to yourself “I won’t succeed …”; “I can’t do this”; “I have no opportunity”; «don’t know how…»? I think often. So, IMMEDIATELY get rid of THIS !!! Get rid of such thoughts, they destroy your life, you are capable of anything!
You are capable of anything
First of all, because of such thinking, many people live unhappily … Without knowing it, they are ruining their lives, and yet it all starts with ordinary thoughts.
Thoughts like these are negative thoughts. Such thinking takes control of a person’s personality, takes control of his life.
Remember: all the restrictions in your head. Life is not so much scary as your own beliefs. So before you refuse to act for some reason, think about what its source is: your thoughts or the world around you.
The opposite opinion. Why are you good for nothing.
It sounds like a terrible sentence … But it is, many people think so. At that time, how everyone IS ABOUT HIMSELF such an opinion. It is sad. Even worse, when a person does not realize that only he is to blame, and not the environment, circumstances, lack of opportunities .., the whole world.
What is the reason for such thoughts? Of course, fear is a natural phenomenon, to feel it is completely normal. As a result, because of fear, similar thoughts appear that infringe on our capabilities.
Fear of making a mistake, fear of the surrounding opinion, fear of the unknown, fear of being a «black sheep». Fear of controversy and struggle. — A similar list can be continued for a long time, since everyone has their own fears.
Now answer, “Why? What are we afraid of this for? ”
If you think carefully, it turns out there is no reason for this, since any fear (problem) can be solved.
For example, several sources of fear.
- Fear of making a mistake. Well, everything is simple … THIS IS NORMAL. As a rule, there are no ideal people who would not make mistakes. They all had / have / will. Just understand, mistakes are very useful. This is an experience that will be remembered forever. Yes, it is obvious that there is little pleasant in errors, and after them a depressing precipitate remains, but you just need to proudly survive this lesson in life and continue on your way!
- Fear of surrounding opinion. It’s also easy … I don’t give a damn about everything. It sounds too loud, but it’s true. Everyone has their own life, so just spending it on tracking someone’s actions is too stupid. Well, if there are still people who need everything everywhere, JUST FORGET. Do not pay attention, they are not worth it
- Fear of the unknown. Well, here, as they say, you will not try — you will not know. Honestly, pretty dumb fear. Since almost every day we learn something new, we study this world! On the other hand, habitual for action were also once unknown to us. So don’t rush and dare!
- Fear of lack of opportunity. It’s a bit more complicated .. but still. It would be a desire, there will be opportunities! The main thing is not afraid. Look for ways to solve the problem, sort through various ways to achieve opportunities. So with your work you can achieve anything! The main thing is that fear does not become the reason that you did not even try to take action.
I think the principle is clear to you. In this way, you can get rid of all fears, that is, for all reasons DO NOT ACT.
Why are you capable of anything?
After going through the options, because of which you can be “incapable”, we came to the conclusion that you can do everything! The main thing: your thoughts, your attitude. If you are in doubt, remember, there is only one life. Better try, try. Do not forget, the possibilities of man are endless! All the conditions in which you are now were created by ordinary people like you. Is this not an indicator that we are capable of anything. TAKE THE RISK! ACT! MISTAKE! LIVE! YOU ARE ABLE FOR EVERYTHING AND EVEN MORE! Also, you can read this post in Russian language.